Her full name is Madeline Finley Poynter. Finley means
"fair-haired warrior" in Gaelic. My husband and I chose the name to
honor my Irish heritage but never knew how fitting it would be until our
beautiful, blonde-haired toddler was diagnosed with childhood cancer in
June of 2009. Maddie was 2.5 years old when I brought her in to urgent
care for dry-heaving. Her behavior had sharply declined for the month
prior to that fateful Saturday morning. She was having horrible night
terrors, waking up screaming and hitting me and her father as we tried
to soothe her. We pulled her out of daycare because she began to have
these behaviors during the day, too. The doctors dismissed it as being
“part of the terrible two’s.” But when I brought her into the ER that
day, the doctor assigned to examine Maddie knew immediately what was
wrong….he had been part of diagnosing the only other case of Wilms Tumor
known in the area. After the scans proved true – Maddie had a large
mass in her left kidney – we were sent by ambulance to Upstate Medical
University Hospital, an hour away. Maddie was riddled with tumor; the
doctors made the decision to start treating her with chemotherapy
immediately before getting the results of the biopsy as Maddie was being
choked from the inside by the many tentacles that branched out from the
main tumor in her kidney. Eventually she was diagnosed with a rare
form of kidney cancer found in children called Wilms Tumor. Maddie was
stage IV in her kidney, lungs and heart and stage III in her abdomen. Maddie was treated in Syracuse at Update Medical University Hospital
(now Golisano’s Children’s Hospital) and Boston Children’s Hospital
where she had her surgery to remove the tumors. On October 8th, after
months of chemo to try to shrink the tumors down, Maddie underwent a
complicated 12-hour surgery guided by two general surgeons, a heart
surgeon and a vascular surgeon to remove her left kidney and to remove
all of the tumors from her body. During this surgery Maddie’s body was
iced down in order to stop all bodily function; she was clinically dead
for 44 minutes while the heart surgeon pulled the tumor from her heart.
Unfortunately Maddie’s one good remaining kidney, thinking she had
passed, began to shut down that night post-surgery and she was rushed
back into the OR the next morning for an emergency 9-hour surgery to
save her life. We lived in Boston for 33 days, 3 of those weeks in the
ICU. I will never know how she had the strength to live on. We brought
her home in November, celebrated Thanksgiving as Maddie learned to walk
again, and then geared up for 3 straight weeks of intensive radiation
that ended on Christmas Eve morning. Maddie was declared cancer-free on
January 11, 2010 and despite a relapse scare, has been cancer-free ever
since.
Images by: KellyAnnePhotography
Images by: KellyAnnePhotography
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